Do My Cats Know They Are Loved? (Vet Answered)
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Veterinarian & Animal Behaviorist
With nearly two decades in veterinary medicine, Dr. Paola brings hands-on experience across multiple species. A graduate of the University of Guadalajara, she specializes in preventive care, animal welfare, and positive reinforcement training.
The Question
“My cats Darwin and Breebree are my babies. I am handicapped. They are the main souls that care for and love me. They kiss me. I would like to know, when I kiss them — which is frequent — do they know they are being kissed? Do they feel and understand my loving kisses? “ – Michael
Dear Michael,
It’s very touching to hear how much Darwin and Breebree mean to you. Cats may not understand the human concept of a “kiss” in the same way we do, but they are very sensitive to the intention behind our actions. When you lean in close, speak softly, and give them a gentle kiss, they pick up on your tone of voice, body language, and the warmth of your touch. These cues communicate safety, affection, and trust, which cats absolutely recognize and value.
Many cats come to associate kisses with comfort, much like they understand petting or being spoken to in a loving voice. Some even respond with slow blinks or rubbing against you, both feline ways of showing affection and trust. So while they may not interpret a kiss in the exact human sense, Darwin and Breebree are very likely experiencing your kisses as expressions of love. In their own way, by seeking you out, showing affection, and returning those moments of closeness, they are telling you they feel deeply bonded to you, too. And, as I am sure you know well, there is no better feeling than that!
Sincerely,
– Dr. Paola